METAMORPHOSIS
The Adult Chair Live
3-Day Immersive Experience
with Michelle Chalfant
March 13-15, 2026
Charlotte, NC
Stop Trying to Fix Yourself. Be Your New Identity.
In 3 days, you'll walk out as a completely updated person.
Not "improved." Not "better." Different.
You'll set boundaries without guilt. Feel your emotions without drowning. Stay connected to yourself even when everyone around you loses their mind. You'll parent from your Adult Chair instead of reacting from your wounds.
The version of you that people-pleases, stays silent, and abandons yourself to keep others comfortable?
That version dies here.
The version of you that lives with ease in your body,
your relationships, your work, your life?
That version is born here.
Limited to 75 participants.
The Metamorphosis
BEFORE:
- You wake up and go through the motions like a robot - same patterns, different day
- You know you should set boundaries... but guilt keeps you silent
- You understand your triggers... but still explode on the people you love or shrink and get small
- You can explain the 5 Pillars of The Adult Chair... but can't actually live them when it counts
- You're exhausted from caretaking everyone... but don't know how to stop
- You wish the outside world would change so you could finally feel better inside
- You intellectually "get it"... but your body still operates from old wounding
AFTER:
- You wake up AS a different person - new identity, new operating system
- You order differently at restaurants. You dress differently. You spend money differently. You show up in relationships differently.
- You parent from your healthy Adult Chair self- responding instead of reacting, modeling emotional health for your kids
- Someone crosses your boundary, and you hold it without guilt or explanation
- You feel a trigger rise and pause, breathe, and respond from your Adult Chair
- You stay connected to yourself even when chaos erupts around you
- You live with EASE - in your body, your relationships, your work, your life
- Your nervous system is rewired - you don't just know the work, you ARE the work
This isn't an improvement. This is an identity shift.
You're Standing in the Threshold
Something is shifting inside you. The old patterns aren't working anymore. The masks you've worn feel heavy.
The version of you that kept everyone else comfortable while abandoning yourself?
THEY'RE READY TO DIE.
And you know what's on the other side.
You've caught glimpses - the version of you who feels emotions without drowning in them or avoiding them. Who sets boundaries without guilt. Who stays connected to themselves, no matter what chaos swirls around them.
THAT'S NOT A FANTASY.
THAT'S YOUR HEALTHY SELF IN YOUR ADULT CHAIR.
AND THEY'RE WAITING FOR YOU.
But here's the truth: The old you must die for the new you to be born.
And that kind of death - that identity-level transformation - doesn't happen alone in your living room. It happens when you're held by community, witnessed in your truth, and guided through the fire by someone who's walked this path before.
This Isn't Information.
This Is Identity Transformation.
Here's what most people get wrong about change:
They think if they just learn enough, understand enough, know enough—they'll finally transform.
But that's not how identity works.
You can read every book, listen to every podcast, take every course - and still wake up tomorrow as the same person. Still people-pleasing. Still triggered. Still stuck.
Because knowing isn't becoming.
Think about your phone. You don't just learn about the new update. You actually install it. Delete the old programs. Upgrade the operating system.
That's what happens here.
Over three days, you won't just learn about your future self.
You'll become them.
You'll dismantle the old programming that's keeping you stuck.
You'll install the new operating system (the 5 Pillars of the Adult Chair).
You'll upgrade your identity.
And you'll walk out AS a different person.
What Makes This Different From Every Other Event You've Been To?
This is EXPERIENTIAL, not educational
Forget taking notes. You'll be moving, feeling, breathing, processing. We're bypassing the mind and going straight to the body, where real change happens.
Small group, intensive transformation
This isn’t a crowded seminar. With only 75 people, you're not just in the audience - you're held, seen, and witnessed throughout the entire journey.
You'll be surrounded by your people
The others in the room? They're not strangers. They're fellow travelers who get it - who are done playing small and ready to step fully into their power.
Integration is built in
Most events end, and you're left wondering, "Now what?" Not here. You'll leave with practices, support, and a clear path forward.
High-Frequency Container
In this space, your intention is amplified by the others in the room. We leverage the “group effect”, bringing the specific frequencies and strengths that others are missing, creating a field of energy far more powerful than any one person could generate alone.
This Event Is For You If...
You're done playing around.
You've done the therapy.
Read the books.
Listened to the podcasts.
You KNOW the model.
But you're still...
Triggered by your mother's passive-aggressive texts.
Unable to set a boundary without spiraling into guilt.
People-pleasing yourself into exhaustion.
Intellectualizing your emotions instead of FEELING them.
Saying "I'm fine" when you're absolutely not fine.
You're here because you're ready to stop KNOWING about transformation and start BEING it.
You're willing to be uncomfortable.
You want to feel grounded, confident, and free.
You’re craving real change—not just more information.
You're willing to let the old you die.
You're ready to do whatever it takes.
If that's you, welcome. Your seat is waiting.
This Event Is NOT For You If...
You want someone to fix you (no one can do that).
You're hoping to avoid discomfort (discomfort is the point).
You want to learn another framework (you have enough frameworks).
You're waiting for your partner/parent/friend to change first.
You're looking for a weekend getaway (this is WORK).
This isn't therapy. This isn't a workshop. This is a death and a rebirth.
If you're not ready for that level of transformation, save your money.
What People Are Saying
"I’ve done therapy for years, but this was the first time I felt like something truly shifted. I left every session lighter and more grounded.”
Maria S.
“The live coaching opened my eyes in ways I never expected. I saw myself in others’ stories and realized I wasn’t alone. That changed everything for me.”
David M.
“For the first time, I finally have tools that actually work when I’m triggered! My relationships have changed for the better due to this work. I am forever grateful for this experience.
Jenn R.
Join us LIVE on March 13-15, 2026 at the
Charlotte Marriott SouthPark
in Charlotte, North Carolina
Plan to arrive in Charlotte by the evening of March 12 and depart no earlier than the evening of March 15 to experience every moment of The Adult Chair Live!
General Admission
$1290
Early Bird: $997 when you register by February 1st
Limited to 75 total participants.
I'm in! Save me a chair at the Live Event!Enhance Your Experience: Add On Options
The Inner Circle: VIP Experience
$333
Limited to 10 people.
This isn't just "front row seating."
This is direct access to Michelle's energy, attention, and mentorship.
What You Get:
Thursday Night Intimate Dinner (March 12th, 6 pm)
The real work starts here. Just 10 people. Michelle. No filters. Breakthrough conversations before the event even begins. This is where the transformation actually begins.
Front Row for All 3 Days
You're not watching the transformation from the back. You're IN it.
90-Minute Group Integration Session
Most people leave events high on transformation... then crash back to reality. Not you. You get Michelle post-event to anchor the work into your actual life so the transformation STICKS.
10 seats. That's it. When they're gone, they're gone.
Total Investment
$1,623
Early Bird: $1,330 when you register by February 1st
I'm in for The Live Event + VIP Experience
Group Integration Session
$111
Already included in The Inner Circle: VIP Experience
Don't want the transformation to end when the event does? Add a post-event 90-minute integration session with Michelle to:
Process your experience and insights
Get personalized guidance on your specific patterns
Ask questions and get coached on any questions that may come up post-event
Deepen the work into your body and daily life
Anchor your new identity so it STICKS
This is how you make sure the transformation doesn't fade when you return to "real life."
- Integration Session date will be shared at a later date with participants.
- Session will take place virtually, in group, on Zoom.
- Yes, it will be recorded!
Total Investment
$1,401
Early Bird: $1,108 when you register by February 1st
Already included in The Inner Circle: VIP Experience
I'm in for The Live Event + Integration SessionFrequently Asked Questions
What's the refund policy?
What if I get emotional or triggered during the event?
I've never been to a live event before. Will I feel out of place?
Do I need to have read the book or be familiar with The Adult Chair?
What is the format? Is this lecture-based?
Is this event recorded?
What if I can't make the integration session date?
Where exactly in Charlotte is the event? Is there a room block?
What should I bring?
How many people will be at the event?
The Real Question Is: Are YOU Ready?
Not ready to learn more about transformation.
Ready to BECOME the transformation.
Ready to let the old you die so the real you can finally be born.
Ready to stop living from your head and start living from your heart.
READY TO EMBODY THE ADULT CHAIR, FOR REAL THIS TIME.
If the answer is yes, your seat is waiting.
But here's the thing: This work doesn't wait for you to feel ready.
You'll never feel 100% ready to let go of who you've been. The old patterns will give you a million reasons to stay small, stay safe, stay the same.
